This commit contains a number of related mailbox issues:
- Add extra parameters to mailbox_respond_receive to allow both the
number of bytes/handles passed in, and the size of the byte/handle
buffers to be passed in.
- Don't delete mailbox messages on receipt if the caller is waiting on
reply
- Correctly pass status messages along with a mailbox::replyer object
- Actually wake the calling thread in the mailbox::replyer dtor
- Make sure to release locks _before_ calling thread::wake() on blocked
threads, as that may cause them to be scheduled ahead of the current
thread.