The last commit was a bandaid, but this needed a real fix. Now we create
a .parse_deps.phony file in every module build dir that implicitly
depends on that module's dependencies' .parse_deps.phony files, as well
as order-only depends on any cog-parsed output for that module. This
causes the cog files to get generated first if they never have been, but
still leaves real header dependency tracking to clang's depfile
generation.
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